No One to Unf**k MeSetbacks to Wins
Chapter 6

Show Up for Yourself

Chimmi in a leather jacket in front of a wall that says: Resilience isn't a moment. It's a whole f*cking lifestyle.
A note from Joemy

Nobody else is going to show up for you the way you can. This is where you make it a daily habit.Joemy

Your exercise

Embodying Resilience

Live your truth every day.

  1. Affirm your power. Write one affirmation that's personal and strong. Example: “I rise stronger from every setback.”
  2. Picture your strength. Imagine handling a challenge with total confidence. Hold that feeling for a few minutes.
  3. Create a daily ritual. One small thing every day: an affirmation, a walk, the mirror, or telling your nervous system, “We're okay.”
  4. Flip the next setback. Next time life hits, tell yourself, “This is just a setup for my next success,” and take one step forward.
How to do the Embodying Resilience exercise, step by step
PDFWant every step in detail?Open the full step-by-step guide for this exercise.
Chimmi in front of a wall that says: The feeling is the red flag. The belief is the f*cking root.
Talk it through

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Turn to page 84 in your book

Write your answers by hand in the exercise, and the 3 things from your coach on your My Notes pages (87 and 88). Old school. Writing it yourself is what makes it stick.

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