No One to Unf**k MeSetbacks to Wins
Chapter 5

Rewrite the Damn Script

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A note from Joemy

You don't have to keep playing a role someone else wrote for you. Grab the pen. This is your script.Joemy

Your exercise

Rewriting Your Script

Pivot your mindset to line up with the real you.

  1. Find the old script. Write down one belief that no longer serves you, about love, work, or life. Be honest.
  2. Rewrite it. Swap it for a new, powerful statement. Example: “I have to work harder than everyone else” becomes “My value comes from being the only me in this world.”
  3. See the new you. Imagine living by this new belief. What does your life look like? How do you feel?
  4. Take one empowered action. Set a boundary, say no, or go after something that lights you up.
  5. Lock it in. When doubt shows up, use a physical reminder, like a hand on your heart or a bracelet.
How to do the Rewriting Your Script exercise, step by step
PDFWant every step in detail?Open the full step-by-step guide for this exercise.
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Talk it through

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Now grab your pencil

Turn to page 71 in your book

Write your answers by hand in the exercise, and the 3 things from your coach on your My Notes pages (73 and 74). Old school. Writing it yourself is what makes it stick.

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