No One to Unf**k MeSetbacks to Wins
Chapter 4

No F**king Plan B

Chimmi in a purple beanie and scarf in front of a wall that says: If you're ready to unf*ck the mess, you'll rise fiercer than ever.
A note from Joemy

Fear is just a signal that you're stepping out of your comfort zone. Good. That's exactly where you need to be.Joemy

Your exercise

Fear to Fierce

Turn your fear into confidence.

  1. Name your fear. Write down one fear that's been holding you back. What's the worst case you imagine?
  2. See yourself doing it anyway. Close your eyes and picture yourself taking action despite the fear. How does it feel?
  3. Take one small step. Pick one small action you can take today, fear and all.
  4. Anchor your fierce. Choose a gesture or a word, like tapping your wrist or saying “fierce,” for when the fear creeps back.
How to do the Fear to Fierce exercise, step by step
PDFWant every step in detail?Open the full step-by-step guide for this exercise.
Chimmi in a purple hoodie in front of a wall that says: This wasn't a pivot. It was me choosing not to abandon myself.
Talk it through

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Heads up: the coach knows this chapter's big ideas, not the whole book. For the full story, that's what the book is for.

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Turn to page 56 in your book

Write your answers by hand in the exercise, and the 3 things from your coach on your My Notes pages (59 and 60). Old school. Writing it yourself is what makes it stick.

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